Today is the 20th Anniversary of my marriage to my hubby. It’s hard to believe that we’ve been together for 20 years. That’s a lot of water under the bridge.
So, how do you keep the romance going for 20 years? Well let me give you some tips. By the way I use these in my writing as well 🙂
1: Never, ever go to bed mad. Not only does this cause you to have a sleepless night, but you don’t get the problem resolved.
2: Always make time for your spouse. Even with a teenager in the house we find time for just us. That’s a big priority.
3: Any time we part either to go to work, or to bed we always say “I Love You”. Those are 3 very important words in a marriage. Without them you’ve got a serious problem.
4: Never shout at one another, well, not in anger. One day we’ll have to shout for the other one to hear, but that’s hopefully way down the road.
5: If you have a disagreement, which everybody does from time to time, just step back and take a breath. That always helps to get a little of the tension away. Then calmy discuss it and work it out.
I know that was only 5, but I can’t give away all my secrets. I’ve been lucky to have a good, hard working, handsome, caring, husband and father to our son. It’s been a blast that’s for sure. So, go give your hubby or signicant other a big kiss and tell them how you feel.
As always, good writing and May God Bless You…